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Exista lucruri care iti consuma timpul, nervii, banii...te consuma pe tine si asta fara ca la capatul sacrificiului sa se afle vreun scop nobil. Pur si simplu sunt lucruri pe care le facem si le facem degeaba, stiind ca practic nu fac nimanui nici un bine....hm, unii le-ar zice vicii, si le-ar zice bine, dar eu as evita termenul acesta pentru ca in general oamenii se gandesc le ceva evident ca tutunul dar se pot ivi si din lucruri aparent nevinovate...jocuri video...DA, guilty as charged, tocesc tastatura predominant pe tastele sageti, datorita seriei Need For Speed pe care am jucat-o cap-coada...e ok atat timp cat iti face placere, asa cum mi-a facut mie...dar cand incepe sa te oboseasca...nu mai e ok.
Si da, e un viciu pentru ca e o zicala "A man has a drink, then the drink has the man". Ei bine cam asa e si cu unele lucruri din viata noastra...E ok sa le facem atat timp cat ne distreaza sau ne fac un bine, sau altora.
Si nu-mi spuneti ca sunt eu obsedata de jocuri, la fel de bine asta se poate aplica si relatiilor. Deunazi, ii spuneam prietenei mele Monica, indragostita de Trent, ca atat timp cat el inca o compara la fiecare pas cu "cealalta" si ii scoate in evidenta greselile, imperfectiunile si cat de buna e "cealalta", mai bine sa nu investeasca nimic in relatia cu el. Azi am primit pe messenger "I have been spending time with Trent but he is so disrespectful at times. When I talk to him and he is watching tv, he never wants to pay attention to me. If it is someone else he will talk to them but to me, he is always hurshing like a dog. I think i want to leave him for good. He is mean to me...tell me what you think". Raspunsul meu: "If you've reached this decision you probably had enough time to think this over. I'm all for the idea that couples sometimes have rough periods and need to stick together, but when it comes to Trent, he hasn't been the honest person in the world and he also keeps reminding you that you can't compare to that girl, so...let him be for a while, and see if he's coming to you, if he's not..then leave him for good and don't look back." Deci da, relatiiile pot fi asa si cati se gasesc in asa ceva si nu-si dau seama.
Pana la urma eu cu NFS habit...sunt cat de cat norocoasa, I can quit anytime I want, really, I just have to press Q on the keyboard and Enter...really I can...Can I?